It's Time !!!

Welcome

I go by many names - Wife, Mom, Daughter, Business Women, Sister, Cleaner, Accountant, Driver, Dog Walker, Counsellor, Personal Trainer, Coach, Therapist, Friend but most people know me as just Candice.

I am not very good at doing what I'm told, in fact when told what to do I then do the opposite. Perhaps that's my Gemina twin paying attention. But I like to think of it as making it my own - walking my chosen selected path in life. Of course some people would call me out for been stubborn and defiant. Thinking outside the box, pushing your boundaries and doing something that often make you feel uncomfortable, but knowing that you will achieve something unique or something you can look back on is a great accomplishment.

So why this new blog, while it's time - Time to embrace my own strengths. Time to see how fill I can make my glass - not just with stuff - we do that everyday of our lives - we full the diary up - we go to bed late at night glued to technology - we over commit and leave nothing left.

As long as I can remember I have always said its important to enjoying the journey !!! We all know that life does not have a pause button. We all have people that we have lost or loose along the way but our memories with its hidden treasures , never truly leave us. What we do with the sadness or grief, well that's up to us - we can carry it until the weight becomes to much and we crumble or we off load some of along the way allowing more space for other more positive things to takes its place.

Start making new exciting chapters with new characters and who knows how our book will end. Something else I haven't had much time to do is Read a book - not just to tick it off the list or finish as quick as possible but actually read and understand the meaning behind the words.

Learning and growing as we filter our thoughts and ideas from our minds creating actions. Jordon Peterson book "The 12 rules for life - the antidote to chaos" his RULE ONE is Stand Tall - is a great read.

So yes, now is the Time to stand tall. Be brave - be bold - be courageous. I'm filling my cup with spending time with people that warrant my time and attention, that brings much love and laughter.

Filling my cup with understanding and patience - not sweating the small stuff and allowing mistakes along the way - its okay not to be perfect. Filling my cup with knowledge and personal growth, by investing in me - finding out what's important and how to nourish my body &soul.

It's time to appreciate the people that stand beside you even when think your standing on your own. The truth of the matter is I am surrounded by so many amazing people that I'm never alone.

So, the question you need to ask yourself - is what are you pouring into your glass?

Until we chat again, by Candice